Meeting other people for the first time is quite daunting and even more so when they will be your future in-laws. Everyone gets nervous, but don’t worry, these are some useful tips on how to leave a good impression.
Be On Time
Time is a good indicator of the kind of seriousness you have whether it’s heading to meet a new boss, going to meet friends for a day out or meeting your future family-in-laws you should always try to be on time.
Showing up late, unless there’s a serious emergency, just comes off as disrespectful. If you want to show them that you’re a dependable and responsible person, keep to time. And this goes for both arriving and leaving.
Bring a Gift
It does not have to be outrageously expensive it can be as simple as a bottle of wine some flowers or fruits. It’s all about the intention and meaning rather than the amount of money spent.
Going out of your way to prepare a gift just means you’ve put some thought into meeting them. So, do not show up empty handed if you really want to make a good impression.
Offer to Help
If you arrive and there are some things that seem to be keeping your hosts from starting the party, offer to help. It can be as simple as setting the table or washing the pots and pans or tidying up. If you get the opportunity to offer your assistance, jump in.
Offering to help is a great way to get to know them better and showcase how kind and caring you are. The family will be glad to note that you are someone who supports and cares.
Compliment Them
Not as soon as but at the right moment, throw out a genuine compliment. Point out something you like about the house or the garden and during the meal if you are having one, make sure you let them know how delicious it is.
People love receiving compliments, and it’s a quick and easy way to get things off on the right step.
Also, compliment and show affection to your partner as this will let your future family know how much you care for their child. No, this does not mean kissing or touching them so please keep your hands to yourself. Just saying nice things about one another, smiling at each other, and any other form of respectful affection will suffice.
