When you are going to spend a few days, weeks or maybe months with family or friends here are a few things to keep in mind
Observe Habits
You may know the people well but it is also important to observe how they do things and what their habits are in their home. Some hosts will have rules and make it clear at the start what is available for you to use and what is off limits.
Some of these habits may include rules about their food, their beverages, and the use of their supplies. You may not agree but always remember this isn’t your own home so you should listen to them. Follow the habits and rules of your host as it’d be incredibly disrespectful to disobey their rules.
Remember that while you’re allowed to use the supplies and amenities during your stay, be respectful of how much you’re using. Don’t be negligent wasteful just because it’s not you paying. Be mindful that your host is paying for these bills.
Be Clean
You’re staying at someone’s house not a hotel, so do to take care of all your messes. This means if you make a mess, make sure you clean up after yourself. You really do not want to leave it all to the host or their help to clean up after you. Not only does it leave a bad impression of you, it’s incredibly rude to the host who is looking after you.
If possible offer to help your host with cooking, cleaning, or setting up when you can. These little things matter and can make your host feel so much more appreciated.
Don’t Bring Drama
We all have our own fair share of problems and challenges that we are facing, but if you’re coming to stay in someone else’s home do your best not to bring emotional baggage. Much as the host is an understanding and helpful person, it can be stressful for them if they have to deal with your conflicts too while you’re staying there.
Limit the drama as it may just create an awkward vibe that makes its uncomfortable for everyone.
Be Considerate
Just because you’re staying at friends or family for a while doesn’t mean you get to comfortably do whatever you want. This is especially important when it comes to your visitors. Yes you have been told to feel at home but that does not mean you should invite whomever you want with or without permission.
Your host put in a lot of effort to make things accommodating for you, but just you. Don’t feel like just because they welcomed you into their home that it is okay to treat it like it’s yours. So avoid bringing over any uninvited guests as this will only create an atmosphere of tension that no one wants in their home. Also, it is very rude and inconsiderate of the host’s personal space.
Being considerate also means know when to leave as a guest. House guests who overstay their welcome can make it awkward and uncomfortable and we all know there’s no easy way to say “Can you go?”
