The first couple of months of marriage are the easiest for most couples because of being deeply in love. However, the road will begin to be bumpy and this is normal.
Taking steps to protect your relationship both now and in the future can ensure a healthier, happier relationship so here are a few tips
Talk and let each other know what each of you thinks, wants and expects. Talking things over and paying attention to the needs of your partner shows them that you care now as much as you did when you were dating.
Trust one another as now you are family. Focus on building and maintaining trust as this will be the cornerstone of your relationship. Without trust, a lot can and will go wrong.
Always respect each other as individuals. Your partner is not your property. So from time to time show gratitude and be supportive of their dreams. Respect also means never taking them for granted
Lift your partner up and support them and help them when they are facing new challenges. Be their cheer leader and loudly voice your encouragement, as it can go a long way.
Never bad-mouth or put your partner down especially when they are not there to defend themselves. You will disagree with what they did from time to time but, there is no need for you to carry that disagreement to other people.
Work together to support each other and tackle whatever challenges arise together because this is your person and you said so by marrying them.
Avoid flirting and set boundaries to protect your relationship. There will always be people out there that will try to insert themselves between you and your partner but remember to always make it clear that you are taken.
Maintain your friendship and make it a priority. This means that your partner should be the first person you turn to in hard times and the friend you seek out first and before others to confide in.
Prioritize being together and nurturing your relationship. Even on busy days as you rush past each other to attend to your busy work schedules take a moment to make a quick call or text or at the end of the day to give them a warm how has as your day been and I missed you kind of hello.
Take care of yourself because it’s easy to let some grooming habits go and to stop caring about your physical appearance. Be sure to continue to be particular about how you look as you did before the marriage, to the best of your ability.
Keep the romance alive by continuing to date and surprise each other with gestures that say you love each other. Small gifts, special meals, or out of town getaways will help you to enjoy each other and your being married.
